Road Tripping with a Dysfunctional Family
My family and I just got back from a 1,200-mile road trip. It was both memorable… and stressful.
When you’re stuck in a car for hours with a group of people who all have different opinions—what to eat, where to stop, when to swim, where to shop—it can feel like you’re trying to herd cats.
But road trips don’t have to be a complete emotional battlefield. With a little planning (and a lot of patience), you can make the experience less painful—and maybe even fun.
Here are my 5 survival tips:
1. Bring Snacks & Stay Hydrated
Long drives can be boring and tedious, but hunger and dehydration make everything worse, especially if you’ve got kids (or adults) who turn into cranky monsters when they’re “hangry.” Keep a stash of snacks and water within reach. Your sanity will thank you.
2. Take Rest Breaks Every 1–2 Hours
Your body isn’t designed to be confined to a seat for hours on end. Every couple of hours, pull over to stretch, walk around, and get some fresh air. Even if you don’t think you need the restroom, go anyway—you’ll avoid those “emergency” moments later.
3. Eat a Solid Breakfast
Breakfast is your energy foundation. Even if lunch ends up being delayed because your family can’t agree on a restaurant (and trust me, they will argue), a hearty breakfast will keep you going and in a better mood.
4. Nap Like It’s a Survival Skill
Walking around outlet malls or sightseeing all day is exhausting. Once you’re back at the hotel, take a power nap—15 to 30 minutes is enough. Skipping rest can make you irritable, impatient, and way more likely to snap at your relatives.
5. Schedule Alone Time (Especially if You’re an Introvert)
Being in a new environment with constant noise, conversations, and activities can drain your social battery fast. If you’re introverted like me, plan pockets of alone time—listen to music, read, watch a show, or just enjoy the quiet. Recharging is essential for surviving the rest of the trip.
Family road trips aren’t always picture-perfect, but with some preparation and boundaries, you can create memories you actually want to remember—without losing your mind in the process.
